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Does Size Matter?

My small penis doesn't bother me, but women seem to have a problem with it. What can I do?

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My problem is that whenever I start dating a woman, things tend to go really well for a while until we get to the issue of sex. I have a really small penis (it's about 3 1/2 inches erect) and women don't always react well when they find out about this. I really don't have any problem with my size, and I came to terms with it a long time ago (I had to), but I can't control how women react. Is there a good way of letting women know about this before it gets to the bedroom? Or should I just not say anything and see how they react?

Answer:

I would not say anything in advance. You sound like you have integrated this part of yourself quite well. So many women do not care about the size of a man's penis. Instead, they care about sexual generosity, great kissing, being sexually "fluid," and not rushing to intercourse.

Enjoy yourself and enjoy your partner. You're doing just fine.

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