After a stressful day, you need help at home. He just wants to chill. So while you prepare dinner, do the laundry, straighten up, and bathe the kids -- yet again -- he's watching the news. Meanwhile, you're getting angry.
Sound familiar? If so, you're like every other couple in America, says best-selling author John Gray (Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus).
In his latest book, Why Mars and Venus Collide: Improving Relationships by Understanding How Men and Women Cope Differently with Stress...
Not true, Abouljoud has to tell them. Recovery is hard work, as is coming to the realization that the transplant surgery carries benefits as well as challenges. Chief among the challenges, Abouljoud and other experts say, is that you have to become accustomed to your new medication regimen, designed to prevent rejection of the new organ. There's also a chance you'll need to come back to the hospital for something minor or maybe more surgery.
To make recovery go smoothly, here is what you need to know about your post-transplant period.
Emotions After an Organ Transplant
The good news: "The majority of people feel better after an organ transplant," says Gigi Spicer, RN, director of theVirginia Transplant Center at Henrico Doctors' Hospital in Richmond, Va.
A typical comment she hears is this: "I didn't know how badly I felt." With that increased sense of well-being, patients are often euphoric.
While that sense of elation is wonderful, Spicer says to remember that you can't push your body faster than it wants to go.
Medications After an Organ Transplant
Like all organ transplant patients, you left the hospital with multiple medications. Perhaps some are to treat underlying conditions such as blood pressure and you are accustomed to taking them.
But the other medications are immunosuppressant drugs to keep your body from fighting off the new organ. A heart transplant patient can leave the hospital with 10 or 15 prescriptions, Diane Kasper, heart transplant coordinator at Mayo Clinic Hospital, tells WebMD.
To avoid problems post-transplant, you must take the medications as prescribed. It can help if you ask your doctor or the pharmacist exactly what each medication is for and to describe possible side effects so you can be aware of them and report them.
Also ask your doctor or pharmacist if you should take the medications with food and if it's still OK to take your routine vitamins, calcium, and other supplements.