Are Allergies Cramping Your Sex Life?
Nasal allergies may make you feel anything but romantic. Here's how to get back in the mood.
Here's a wild guess: When an allergy attack hits and leaves you sneezing and
itching, with teary eyes and a nose that is runny and stuffed, you probably
aren't much in the mood for romance.
It may sound obvious that drippy noses don't bring out the sex kitten in
people. But for the first time, a study has looked at the impact allergies have on our sex lives and found that many
people with chronic allergic rhinitis, or hay fever, often put the kibosh
on sex when symptoms are flaring.
This new piece of research, published recently in the journal Allergy and
Asthma Proceeding, comes from Michael Benninger, MD, chairman of the
otolaryngology department and the Head and Neck Institute at the Cleveland
Clinic, and his son, Ryan Benninger, of Miami University in Oxford, Ohio. They
found that 83% of allergic rhinitis sufferers polled said that their sexual
activity was affected at least sometimes. About 17% said that allergies always
or almost always had a negative impact on their sex life.
"People would say, this really bothers me, and I can't tell my spouse or
significant other ... but when allergies flair, I don't feel like having sex,"
Benninger tells WebMD.
Hay fever affects as many as 40 million Americans, according to the American
College of Allergy, Asthma, and Immunology. Symptoms can include sneezing,
runny or stuffy nose, watery eyes, wheezing, or cough. It's these common
symptoms that are typically the focus of discussions between doctors and
"When we talk to patients about allergies, we ask about fatigue, asthma, snoring, itchiness, and troubled breathing," says
Clifford Bassett, MD, medical director of Allergy and Asthma Care of New York
and attending physician specializing in allergy and immunology at New York's
Long Island College Hospital. "We don't ask about things that go on in the
bedroom. Sexual function is a quality of life issue that, as clinicians, we
don't do a comprehensive enough job to assess."
What's Stopping You?
The reasons people with nasal allergies avoid sex weren't evaluated in his
study, but Benninger speculates that the nature of hay fever symptoms leave
people feeling, well, unsexy. "[When you have] difficulty breathing, teary
eyes, and a runny nose, even the simple act of kissing becomes unappealing,"
In addition, allergies cause fatigue and tend to impact sufferers' sleep. "When they go to bed, they want to sleep, not be
amorous," Benninger says of people with hay fever.
Allergies also affect people's ability to smell. "We all know that smell and
pheromones are a big part of sexuality, even in humans," Benninger says. It
would follow, therefore, that if a person can't smell, their interest level in
sex might decrease.
"It makes sense," Benninger says. "But nobody has ever talked about it. They
always talk about other symptoms and activity. This is the first time that
there has ever been a large-scale study showing that it makes a
If your sex life has been put on ice because of nasal allergies, here's good
news: You don't have to limit your lovemaking to the seasons when your
allergies don't flare. Allergy treatments have come a
long way, and help is available.