Here's a wild guess: When an allergy attack hits and leaves you sneezing and itching, with teary eyes and a nose that is runny and stuffed, you probably aren't much in the mood for romance.
It may sound obvious that drippy noses don't bring out the sex kitten in people. But for the first time, a study has looked at the impact allergies have on our sex lives and found that many people with chronic allergic rhinitis, or hay fever, often put the kibosh on sex when symptoms are flaring.
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The problem: Flowers aren't likely to be the worst allergens here, although it may be the first thing you think of. Pollen from brightly colored flowers is carried by insects from plant to plant -- not by the wind. So there's less airborne pollen from these flowers.
Instead, pollen from trees, grasses, and weeds are more likely to trigger your allergies.
Prevent by: Check pollen counts before going; if it's really high, consider rescheduling. Go at a time of day that's more allergy-friendly. Plants typically release pollen shortly after sunrise, but pollen travels best on midday breezes. So, airborne pollen is often highest between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m. Time your visit for late afternoon.
If you typically take an antihistamine, take it before heading out. If you are on prescription allergy medicines, take them as directed but before you go. Take along the meds, including an over-the-counter saline nasal spray.
Once there: Keep the medicine handy. You can use the saline nose spray several times a day.
Challenge #2: Fresh-Air Weddings
The problem: These events usually coincide with high pollen season. That's typically spring and summer although some outdoor wedding dates could extend into the fall.
Prevent by: Use your medicine -- antihistamines, nasal sprays if you have them – before you’re outside. Take along an over-the-counter saline nose spray.
If you're the bride or groom, check the typical pollen count for your area before setting the date. You can also minimize exposure to allergens by having the ceremony outside and moving the reception indoors, for instance.
Go ahead and splurge on the bouquets. Flowers rarely cause the problem. It's more the pollens from trees and grasses.
Once there: If symptoms flare despite the preventive action, slip away and use the nasal saline spray. Shake pollen off your clothes if possible.