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    Home Safety

    If they're still living at home rather than in assisted care, use one of your visits to check for possible trouble spots in the house. Remove tripping hazards, such as throw rugs and extension cords. Consider installing ramps or chair lifts, if getting around is hard.

    Because clutter can be disorienting to someone with cognitive issues, clear away piles of junk, papers, and knicknacks. One simple photo album with pictures of family members can help bring a smile every day.

    Check in Regularly

    Since you can't be there on a daily basis to help your loved one prepare meals, remember to take medications, dress, and bathe, the next best thing is to hire a local caregiver whom you trust. Go to the Caregiver Center on ALZ.org to find links to home health-care agencies, or check out the Department of Health and Human Services eldercare locator at www.eldercare.gov.

    Keep in regular contact with the caregiver to talk about any changes or challenges. Ask a neighbor or nearby friend to drop by often and give you an honest report of the quality of the care, too.

    Get in the Medical Loop

    Have your loved one give you written permission for their doctors to share medical information with you. Introduce yourself to their primary-care doctor and neurologist. Write down the specific medications and doses they're taking, and look into their side effects. Read up on Alzheimer's and its treatments.

    Use Tech to Stay in Touch

    With the help of a tech-savvy local caregiver or friend, you can get your loved one set up to video chat using software like FaceTime or Skype. As the disease progresses and their memory recedes, be prepared for them to need reminders about where you're calling from and who members of your family are.

    Enjoy Your Time Together

    Whether you're able to visit once every few weeks or only every few months, you may feel pressure to get everything done that day: shopping, doctor's visits, home repairs. Yes, that business is important, but you being there is also a chance to connect.

    Plan out your visit beforehand, so you can take care of pressing issues, and also build in time to enjoy each other's company. Depending on your loved one's stage of dementia, they might enjoy watching a movie together, going for a walk, playing a card game, or listening to favorite music.

    WebMD Medical Reference

    Reviewed by Melinda Ratini, DO, MS on April 05, 2016
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