How to Get Everything You Want In Life
Get What You Want: continued...
Be a little dramatic. Your "shocked" reaction to a price, even a
reasonable one, could bring it down.
Enlist your guy for a little good cop/bad cop act. If a price on a
big-ticket item (like a house or a car) isn't as low as you'd like, pretend he
won't agree until the figure comes down.
Consider buying multiple items or services at once; a seller who won't budge
on a single piece might be willing to cut you a break on a larger sale.
When all else fails, be ready to walk away. If a salesperson is willing to
go lower, he'll make you another offer; if he's hit bottom, you can use his
best price as a benchmark at another store.
19) Get flat abs in a day
We know, we know. We should have been doing 100 crunches a night for the past
six months. But, well, um, we didn't. And now the wedding's this Saturday. Is
there any hope? For flat abs tomorrow, "stay away from fruits, dairy,
processed carbs, and excessive fats. They can make your body retain water and
leave your tummy bloated," says trainer David Kirsch, owner of The Madison
Square Club in New York City. We can't promise you'll look like Heidi Klum (one
of David's clients), but your belly will be noticeably less noticeable.
20) Shoes that are stylish and comfortable
Think chic comfort is an oxymoron when it comes to your tootsies? Not with
* Geox, geox.com
* Aerosoles, aerosoles.com
* Faryl Robin, farylrobin.com
21) Get unconditional love
"The most likely path to receiving unconditional love is to give it. As
some great philosophers-the Beatles-once said, 'The love you take is equal to
the love you make.' It's also important to pick the right person. He doesn't
have to be perfect, but he does have to have a track record of being present
and loyal even during rough times."- REDBOOK Love Network expert David
Wexler, Ph.D., executive director of the Relationship Training Institute.
22) Find a last-minute babysitter you can trust.
Your sitter's sick and Mary Poppins isn't likely to drift down anytime soon.
These websites are the next best thing. Just type in your zip code and, for a
fee (ranging from $40-50 for the first one to three months, $5-10 per month
after that), they'll hook you up with reliable child care. Not a bad price to
pay for peace of mind; the websites' detailed profiles list things like
sitters' certifications (such as CPR), languages spoken, and whether or not
they have transportation.
Live in an urban area? Parent-tested childcare resources in cities across
the country are listed on gocitykids.com. Also, many colleges and universities
have babysitting services that pair parents with their students. Check your
local schools' websites or call their Office of Human Resources.