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    In One Year, Out the Other

    This year, try giving resolutions a rest and just do your best.
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    WebMD Feature
    Reviewed by Louise Chang, MD

    Here's a New Year's resolution anyone can keep: Resolve not to make any more New Year's resolutions.

    Now, wasn't that easy?

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    If you're trying to pay down your credit cards, quit smoking, get a new job, find a mate, or shed some excess poundage, abandoning New Year's resolutions won't get you off the hook.

    But by setting more realistic goals for yourself and not limiting yourself to a once-a-year, do-or-die, all-out assault on that Everest of debt, those flabby thighs, or the hideous wallpaper you keep meaning to replace, you may find that the finish line isn't so far away after all.

    Or as the Rolling Stones put it, "you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you just might find you get what you need."

    Popular New Year's Resolutions

    According to USA.gov, the nation's official Web portal, Americans commonly resolve every January to:

    • Lose weight
    • Manage debt/save money
    • Get a better job
    • Get fit
    • Eat right
    • Get a better education
    • Drink less alcohol
    • Quit smoking
    • Reduce stress overall and/or at work
    • Take a trip
    • Volunteer to help others

    The Web site doesn't cite the sources for these popular New Year's resolutions, nor do they offer statistics on how often they are broken. But as the poet Robert Burns, author of "Auld Lang Syne," famously observed, "The best laid plans o' mice and men [often go astray]."

    "The cycle is deprive yourself, and then binge and make up for it," says Elizabeth Zelvin, LCSW, an online therapist who helps people with eating disorders.

    "New Years after New Years, millions of Americans make a resolution to go on a diet, and a diet is a way of eating that feels so depriving that you can hardly wait to get to the end of it so you can go back to doing what you did before," she tells WebMD.

    Some resolution-makers last a week keeping their New Year's resolutions, and some stick it out all the way to Feb. 1, but very few manage to achieve their goal weight, Zelvin says.

    As a therapist, Zelvin also deals with people who have substance abuse problems, and she says that the principles of 12-step programs are practical and effective guides to living, especially with their emphasis on setting attainable goals.

    "'One day at a time' is the antithesis of making New Year's resolutions," she says. "It's not saying, 'I'm going to do this and keep it up all year,' it's saying, 'What can I do today?'"

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