In One Year, Out the Other
This year, try giving resolutions a rest and just do your best.
Accentuate the Positive continued...
Life coach Marlene Gonzalez thinks it's fine to have New Year's resolution
but doesn't think much of their effectiveness.
"I think you need life resolutions that can help you transform your
life," says Gonzalez, president of the Life Coaching Group, based in
Chicago. "Many people make resolutions at the beginning of the year but
then they forget about it. They need something that empowers them to change and
transform their lives."
Gonzalez says that people should develop personal power and accountability
to make changes and take control of their lives.
"We're in an economic crisis now, and this has opened everyone's
eyes," she says. "What we need is to look deep inside, really know who
we are and what we want out of life, and put plans together."
'An Incredibly Good Idea'
New Year's resolutions may not find favor with many professional motivators,
but at least one is gung ho about them.
"I believe they're an incredibly good idea," says Gary Ryan Blair,
who teaches strategic planning and goal-setting initiatives for individuals,
entrepreneurs, and corporations. "No. 1, New Years is the only holiday that
celebrates the passage of time, and No. 2, it's the first opportunity you have
in the new year to remake yourself, to make your first commitment to
The challenge, says Blair, whose company The GoalsGuy has offices in
Syracuse, N.Y., and Palm Harbor, Fla., is not in making New Year's resolutions,
but in keeping them by honoring the commitment to change. To be successful, he
says, a resolution -- whether it's for personal improvement or a sure-fire
business plan -- needs to be specific, have measurable landmarks, and a solid
"If you mix all three of those together, and your resolutions meet those
criteria, you will significantly increase the probability of success," he
Love them or loathe them, New Year's resolutions are nothing if not a
time-honored tradition, and if after reading all this you still have good
intentions of keeping your New Year's resolutions, you may wish to consider the
following lines a brash young writer by the name of Samuel Clemens penned for
the Virginia City Enterprise on Jan. 1, 1863:
"Now is the accepted time to make your regular annual good
resolutions," wrote Clemens, under the pen name Mark Twain. "Next week
you can begin paving hell with them as usual."