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Cosmetic Surgery: A Better Sex Life?

Study Shows Breast Augmentation and Body Contouring May Improve Sex Life

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"With people who undergo body-contouring surgery, they walk in covered up by clothing and six months later, they walk in proud," she says. "It doesn't change who they are, but it makes them more confident. And intimacy stems from a sense of well-being and feeling good about your body," says Casas, who is also a spokeswoman for the American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery.

"Cosmetic surgery can change how you feel about yourself, but it won't change your self-esteem or who you are," she points out.

"I would never say, 'Have your breasts enlarged so you can have a better sex life.' But if someone said, 'Doctor, I feel so bad about my tummy after having three kids, I am embarrassed to have sex with my husband' -- then a body-contouring procedure may make them feel so much better. And it can give them the confidence to feel good about themselves in an intimate setting," she says.

"I hear it over and over again after body-contouring surgery," she says. "Patients say, 'I am so proud of my body. And my husband and I have so much more fun.'"

Therapy vs. Surgery

According to New York City psychoanalyst Gail Saltz, MD, author of the forthcoming Anatomy of a Secret Life, problems in the bedroom are likely due to more than dissatisfaction with breast size.

"Being able to achieve orgasm and have a satisfying sex life has a lot to do with sexual fantasy. And if your fantasy life is very hampered by feelings that you really dislike your body or breasts, then certainly creating an creating an image for yourself that's more akin to your sexual fantasy will help improve your sex life," she says.

"I would argue that what is getting in the way of fantasy life is probably more than the feeling that your breasts aren't the right size," she says. A better -- and safer -- bet may be to explore in therapy why this one thing matters so much to how well you like yourself sexually and physically.

"If you are feeling inhibited about the nature of your sexual fantasies, surgery isn't going to change that, and it's a lot to go through," she says.

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