Me and the Girls: Jenee Bobbora
When offering help, Bobbora recommends making specific offers, like offering
to bring a meal over or helping with children. "I think being specific and
offering specific things -- can I help with X -- is a great way to treat people
when they're ill," she says.
Finding meaning: Bobbora has been active in breast cancer support
groups, both online and in person. And she says that in a "weird" way, her
breast cancer experiences have been "enriching."
"If I had never had breast cancer, I have no idea what I would be doing in
my life right now. Maybe it would be something equally meaningful, but I kind
of doubt it," she says. "There is some perspective there that some people have
serious difficulties in their life that they somehow get through, and it kind
of encourages me that you can get through and that people are really
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