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    Cancer: A Caregiver’s Daily Checklist

    When you're caring for someone who’s having treatment for cancer, you want to let her know you're there to help. You’ll also want to let her decide when she needs your help. Use this checklist to make daily care easier.


    • A woman with cancer might feel more confident and in control when she takes care of how she looks. If she wants, help her put on makeup and fix her hair, even if she’s in bed all day. Keep her favorite lotions and grooming supplies handy.
    • For safety, use an electric shaver. Men should avoid aftershaves that have alcohol, which might irritate their skin.
    • For someone getting chemotherapy, remind her to brush her teeth after she eats to avoid infection. Offer waxed dental floss, a soft-bristle toothbrush, and fluoride toothpaste without whitening or tartar control. Talk to her doctor about flossing if her gums bleed and she has low levels of platelets in her blood.
    • Make a mouth rinse by mixing 1/2 teaspoon baking soda with 1 cup of water for her to use after each brush. Don't use store-bought mouthwash. It can have alcohol or chemicals that may irritate her mouth.


    • Keep the water temperature comfortable if you help her bathe. Be gentle when you wash and pat dry. Dry skin can be a side effect of treatment, so smooth on a water-based cream after a bath or shower and at other times during the day. Let her do it herself if she wants, but help with hard-to-reach areas.
    • Her scalp may be sensitive if treatment is making her hair fall out. Make sure she has a mild shampoo and soft hairbrush.

    Practical Tips

    • If she has lost weight, have her clothes altered to fit better, or think about buying a few new clothes while she’s having treatment. If her skin is dry or sore, offer clothing in soft fabrics like cotton. Skip uncomfortable, tight-fitting clothes.
    • Make sure she wears sunscreen and hats outside.

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