Instead of sporting bandanas and faux-looking wigs, today's crop of female
cancer patients are covering their heads with black wool hats that brazenly say
"F--K CANCER" or simply not covering their heads at all.
These patients are bold, bright, and brash -- and they’re taking cancer by
storm. In the process, they’re changing the way we talk about, deal with, live
with, and triumph over cancer.
Children with cancer need information that is right for their age.
Studies show that children with cancer want to know about their illness and how it will be treated. The amount of information a child wants depends in part on his or her age. Most children worry about how their illness and treatment will affect their daily lives and the people around them. Studies also show that children have less doubt and fear when they are given information about their illness, even if it is bad news.
And you need to get to know them, because they can teach us all a lot about
living. Since their diagnoses, these women have fallen in love, had children,
made movies, written books, started support organizations, and raised money
(not to mention awareness) for their cancers.
Two high-profile survivors are setting the trend. Elizabeth Edwards, the
wife of presidential candidate John Edwards, is out campaigning with and
vehemently defending her husband as she manages an incurable cancer. Robin
Roberts, the co-host of ABC's Good Morning America, is continuing to
work while undergoing chemotherapy for breast cancer.
"It is a very positive and very new image of a cancer survivor who is
interested in talking about cancer and living the best lives they can,"
says Terri Ades, MS, APRN-BC, AOCN, director of cancer information at the
American Cancer Society in Atlanta. And there are lots of them. "There are
more cancer survivors today than there have been in the past, and by 2020, the
number of survivors will double."
Crazy, Sexy Survivors
Meet Kris Carr, the director and producer of The Learning Channel's
documentary film Crazy Sexy Cancer and author of the book Crazy Sexy
"The new face of cancer is people living with disease, managing it, and
in some ways making a better life as a result of it," she says.
"Truthfully, cancer isn’t sexy. But the women who have it are," she
says. "They are whole and passionate, with or without the disease."
She knows of what she speaks. Carr, an actress, was diagnosed with incurable
epithelioid hemangioendothelioma, an extremely rare vascular cancer that
affected her lungs and liver in 2003, when she was just 31 years old.