You've Survived Cancer: Now What?
People who have fought cancer and won may expect to go back to their ordinary lives. But life after cancer can be anything but ordinary.
The Fertility Issue
Of the problems faced by cancer survivors, damaged fertility is
one of the least understood, says Fertile Hope's Nohr. The side effects of
radiation, chemotherapy, or surgery can leave a person infertile.
"I would estimate that only 10% of oncologists even discuss
the fertility issue with female patients who are under 45 before
treatment," she says. "That is a big, big problem. Cancer patients are
much more empowered now than they have been in the past, getting second
opinions and researching their treatment options, but many patients don't
understand that some cancer treatments many leave them unable to have
Cancer patients can take special fertility-saving measures
before treatment. Adult and adolescent males can make deposits in a sperm bank
for future use. Prepubescent boys can have testicular tissue frozen to preserve
For women the issues are more complex. A woman's
fertility-saving measures depend entirely on her cancer treatment and her
particular physiology. Eggs can be extracted and frozen, as can embryos. From
there, the measures become increasingly tailored to an individual woman's
"That's why all women cancer patients who have the
potential to bear a child need to see a reproductive endocrinologist before
cancer treatment begins," says Nohr. "Oncologists do not know enough
about fertility. They tend to be not well educated about these issues, and
that's why women need to be very proactive and think farther down the road to
protect their fertility if possible."
That's also, says Nessim, why a survivor support group is so
"To have a group of survivors you can talk to is so
vital," she says. "You learn from their experiences and mistakes. Once
you finish treatment, your issues are dealing with everyday life. You may not
be comfortable talking with cancer patients who are currently in treatment if
you're worried about how you're going to keep your job or paying bills or
Talking with other survivors about survivor issues is what
makes all the difference, says Nessim.