Also, you can help your child in other general ways.
Deal with fears. Understand that your
child may become extremely interested in scary subjects or images as a way to
overcome fears about them. Help your child as much as you can by answering questions and
providing reassurance as needed.
Discourage physical violence and show your child ways to deal with anger without being violent. Protect your child from violent media as much as you can. Some TV programs, movies, video games, and websites show a lot of violent acts. Children who watch a lot of this violence may come to believe that such behavior is okay. This can make them more likely to act violently themselves. It can also lead to nightmares, aggression, or fears of being harmed.1
Music lyrics affect children's behavior and emotions, too.2 Monitor the type of music that your child is exposed to, and be aware
of the music your child buys.
Set limits for your children to show them that you love and care about them.
Make sure your rules are reasonable and that your child understands them. It is
important to follow through on any consequences you have established for
failing to follow rules.
Recognize and develop special talents.
Help your child discover interests and practice skills. For example, kick a
soccer ball around the yard with your child or help him or her practice
Recognize his or her
curiosity about the body and sexuality. You can help
your child gain basic knowledge and a healthy attitude toward these issues by
showing a willingness to listen and discuss them.
Ask for help when you
need it. Call a family member or friend to give you a break if you feel
overwhelmed. Find out about community resources that are available to help you
with child care or other necessary services. Call a doctor or local hospital to
find out about a place to start. Some communities have respite care facilities
for children, which provide temporary child care during times when you need a
This information is produced and provided by the National
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WebMD Medical Reference from Healthwise
September 09, 2014
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