The 20-something couple, married just a few years, was eagerly looking
forward to the birth of their first baby.
Labor and delivery went fine, and the baby was born healthy. But problems
began when the new mom, overwhelmed by motherhood, suffered depression.
"The husband had to take care of everything," recalls Joan R. Sherman, MFT,
a licensed marriage and family therapist in Lancaster, Pa., who saw the couple
in counseling. When he was at work, he worried that his wife was so