Spice Up Your Sex Life - No Matter What Your Size
Don't make romance wait for your ideal weight
Back to Those Sexy Scanties
Buying new lingerie can make you feel sexier. But Valan-Hudson says heavier
women often think they need to buy the sort of getups you might see in an
X-rated film -- garter belts and the like. Of course, you can get this
type of outfit; even Victoria's Secret is carrying realistic sizes these days.
Or you could create your own sexy style.
"My first recommendation is buy a good, sexy bra," Valan-Hudson
says. "This is your base, then you can add a couple of items on top. A
nightie or peignoir, perhaps. "Go with what makes you feel sexy," she
says (he might even prefer your Scooby Doo t-shirt!).
Emphasize your favorite body part. If you have great legs, get a slinky gown
cut "up to there." If see-through is not you, get a drapey silk gown,
cut on the bias. But don't wear anything that makes you uncomfortable,
emotionally or physically. If you do buy a bustier, make sure you can breathe
in it (breathlessness should come later).
You could wear some of this under a robe -- or even a raincoat, Valan-Hudson
laughs. "Leave something to be discovered."
What you might (re)discover is how much fun sex is. "I tell people the
five secrets to great sex are communication, communication, communication, a
sense of humor, and lubrication," laughs Blank