Lisa Brosch: Losing Weight for Those You Love
People can often lose part of themselves while taking care of someone else's needs.
Lisa Brosch, 43, who lives in Carol Stream, Ill., never had a weight problem as a child. But when she married and began having children, the pounds began creeping on.
When her daughter, Kelly, was born with a heart defect in 1992, Kelly’s care and needs took priority. Kelly required surgery at only three weeks old. At age 10, she received a heart transplant.
Brosch spent countless hours in physicians' offices and hospitals. The family had to juggle the often-chaotic routine of daily life with a challenge that would test anyone's ability to eat healthfully and fit in exercise.
"Kelly’s care was every day, all day," Brosch says. "It changed the lives of all four of us."
For Brosch, the sacrifice was her own health and well being. Countless fast food meals and less-than-ideal eating helped her weight reach 286 pounds. The challenge of family, work, and caring for her daughter were simply far larger priorities than ideal nutrition.
Three years ago, Brosch began to analyze the ways her own health was slipping and how that would ultimately impact her ability to take care of her daughter. She believed change wasn't just an option, it was integral for her entire family.
"That's when I began thinking about my own health and how Kelly was going to need us to be there and support her down the road," Brosch says. "I questioned whether I was healthy enough to be there for her."
She took a simple, yet imperative, step; she joined the local park district health club in February 2005 with no specific goal or grand plan. The treadmill seemed practical, so she began to walk.
"I really liked it," she says.
"Psychologically, you have to get to a point where you decide this is how you're going to eat for the rest of your life," Brosch says. "The second you start relaxing your focus, your weight will go back up. I realized how bad eating was making me feel, and I realized how not relying on food in the same way wasn't so hard."
The pounds started disappearing. And Brosch persevered despite setbacks that could have easily caused her to slide: Kelly required another surgery and developed diabetes from medication designed to prevent transplant rejection.
Fourteen months later,her weight loss of 100 pounds has transformed her outlook, attitude, and happiness.
"It's like having this new toy," Brosch says. "You can put on clothes, and you can look good in the clothes. And the feedback you get is a great thing too."
And Kelly is following mom's lead.
Both mother and daughter traveled to the U.S. Transplant Games in 2006 and 2008. Kelly participated in table tennis, badminton, and bowling. Mom, meanwhile, took part in the walkathon.
The experience with Kelly and her own transformation has enriched Brosch's life more than she ever imagined.
"We make an effort to find the good in this," she says of the struggles. "The people we've met, the experiences we've had."
Thanks to the support of her "biggest cheerleaders" -- son Tom, 19, and husband, Larry -- she's now prepared with the tools, confidence, and happiness to embrace life while being healthy and fit to provide the support her daughter needs.
It's a makeover she couldn't embrace more.