TV's 'Sex and the City' Tackles Real-Life Problem: Impotence
WebMD News Archive
Sept. 29, 2000 -- Millions are tuning in to the HBO hit Sex and the City as two distressed newlyweds cope with erectile dysfunction (ED), but is the TV story line an accurate portrayal of this common problem? Experts say Charlotte and Trey are on the right track, but there's a bit more to know about ED if you live in the real world.
When Trey was unable to consummate the relationship the night before their wedding, Charlotte probably didn't realize that erectile dysfunction affects up to 20 million men in the U.S. and is mostly caused by psychological factors such as guilt, fear, depression, and anxiety. Even though ED often occurs only occasionally or in certain situations, an important first step is to determine whether the cause is physical or psychological.
In a hilarious attempt to make this call, Charlotte fitted her husband with a penile ring made of postage stamps. "It sounds crazy, but sex therapists recommend it all the time," says William Grazig, PhD, president of the American Board of Sexology and director of the sex therapy training program at Maimonides University in North Miami Beach. "Because the ring was broken the next morning, it was clear that Trey had an erection during the night," ruling out a physical cause for his ED, he explains in an interview with WebMD.
Relieved to learn that there was nothing physically wrong with her husband, Charlotte then surfed the Internet in search of a cure. She had great hope for a rigid or inflatable penile implant, but the mere mention sent her husband-the-surgeon running -- actually, leaving their uptown digs to go for a jog. His response may have been appropriate, given that these surgical implants are a last resort, usually reserved for men who have failed or rejected other treatments.
In search of a less invasive option, Charlotte then suggested medication, but Trey pooh-poohed the popular drug Viagra, agreeing instead to see a sex therapist. Unfortunately, the therapist's "homework" assignment caused our young bride to learn that her groom was self-pleasuring with the help of a magazine. Ever-resourceful and desperate to remain a part of her husband's fantasy life, she simply pasted a photo of her patrician face on top of the buxom beauties' bodies.