Tips for Long-Distance Caregiving
Adjust your plan of care when necessary
Be aware that your care plan may need to be altered. The older person's needs may change, and helpers will come and go. Use your care log to deal with changes.
Explore relocation issues
Primary questions are when, who, and where.
When: Relocation is appropriate when a health professional recommends a change, the older person needs 24-hour care, his or her safety is at risk, or the home does not meet fire or safety standards. Other reasons may be less obvious. Remember, the older person may be willing to bear a little inconvenience to remain in his or her home.
Who: Should you or the older person relocate? Examine the financial and emotional costs.
Where: There are many options for senior housing. Contact your local department of aging for assistance.
Take care of yourself
Maintain good health, make time for yourself, set limits, and allow others to help.