Heart Disease Diagnosis Stressful for Spouses, Too
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May 15, 2000 -- When Miriam Terry, now 76, found out 15 years ago that her
husband, George, had heart disease, she didn't know what she was going to
"It was very scary for both of us," Terry tells WebMD. "Part of
me was saying, 'Thank God we know what it is, and now we will try to deal with
it and do everything that we are supposed to do.' But the rest of me was
terrified that I was going to lose my soul mate."
Terry says she barely slept at first. She kept turning over to make sure
George was breathing, or she lay awake, stressing about what their future would
hold. "If he wanted to be physical, I'd wonder if I should back off, no
matter how difficult that was, because I was scared it would be too taxing on
his heart," she says.
Now, as Miriam and George prepare to celebrate their 55th wedding
anniversary, she is more comfortable with his illness and the limitations it
sometimes places on their lives. Still, "it would have been nice if I had
someone to talk with about how I was feeling during that time," she
Many spouses of heart disease patients feel the same way. A new study
published in the journal Heart & Lung found that 66% of wives of men
undergoing cardiac rehabilitation reported that they felt distressed and tense,
and had trouble falling asleep, after their husbands were diagnosed with heart
disease. Distress was particularly common among the younger wives studied --
those in their early 50s -- than among the older wives, the study found.
To arrive at their findings, the researchers gave more than 200 wives of
heart patients standardized tests to measure such things as their distress
levels, heart disease-related stressors, and coping strategies. The results
showed that the wives had worries about treatment, recovery, and prognosis;
about their husbands' moodiness; and about when and if their husbands could
return to work and sex.
"The most important message is that heart disease affects not only the
patient, but the family members as a unit," researcher Patricia O'Farrell,
RN, BScN, who conducted the study, tells WebMD. O'Farrell is clinical manager
for the Heart Institute Prevention and Rehabilitation Centre at the University
"Distress is a normal reaction to a serious event like a heart
attack," she says. "Ideally, there needs to be help for family members
and spouses so they can adjust to heart disease."
The spouses of patients undergoing cardiac rehabilitation, especially
younger women, should be screened for distress, O'Farrell and her colleagues
conclude in their article. "Those in distress should be offered
interventions focused on assisting them to deal with specific stressors related
to their experience," they write.