Medical examinations and tests can be scary for children, so it is important to give them age-appropriate information.
Children ages 2 to 6 often ask "Why?" Don't give them long answers or additional information. Only answer the question. Explain about the tests or the physical exam in simple words.
Children ages 6 to 12 may be scared when they go to see a health professional. If the child is old enough to understand that he or she is ill and needs tests, explain what will happen during the visit.
At the time of the test or physical exam, the child may not want to cooperate with the health professional and may need to be held still during certain tests. Don't scold a child for fighting about being held still-the child is scared. Comfort your child after the test is done.
Preteens and teens also may be frightened when they go to see a health professional. Explain what will happen during the visit.
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