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Parenting with Lupus: How to Get Support

If you're a parent with lupus, you're going to need help from a lot of different people. Here are some pointers on how to get it.

  • Have scheduled help. Don't get extra help on a casual, as-needed basis. Build support into the week. Maybe it means getting a nanny. Maybe it means asking your sister to take the kids grocery shopping once a week. Maybe it means hiring a 12-year-old girl from the neighborhood to be a mother's helper after school. However you do it, parents with lupus need to have regular, scheduled help, Katz says.

    "You must have time to yourself that you can depend on," says Katz, "time when you can take a nap or take a walk and know that your kids will be OK."
  • Plan for emergencies. Most people with lupus do quite well with treatment. Even so, parents with lupus should all have a disaster plan in case they ever get seriously sick or hospitalized, Katz says. Make sure close friends and family know what they would need to do. Not only will a plan help things run more smoothly if you have a health setback, it will reduce your anxiety now.
  • Don't let your kids get overburdened. If you have lupus, your kids will probably have to help out more around the house than they would otherwise. That's to be expected. Just be careful not to put too much on your children's shoulders. "You don't want your kids to grow up feeling like a semi-parent," says Katz.
  • Consider seeing a therapist. Being able to express your concerns to a therapist — about everyday hassles as well as serious health anxieties — will help you feel better and more in control. A therapist can teach parents with lupus practical techniques to manage the day. Family therapy can be a good idea too. It will allow your whole family to express themselves freely in a safe, controlled environment.
  • Strengthen your relationship with your partner. If you're raising kids with a spouse, the two of you need to have a solid relationship. Inevitably, your lupus will put extra stress on your partner. It’s important that you not let your relationship deteriorate so that you're the "sick one" and your partner is the caretaker, Katz says. "Even if you're worn out, there are still ways you can support your spouse," he says. "Give him or her a chance to talk about their day or their stresses. Do little things to help your spouse feel better."

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