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    Between Friends: Living Donors

    It's a trend that's changing transplant medicine. More and more people are willing to donate a kidney or part of a liver - while they're still alive.
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    Steven's voice filled with emotion when he talked about his long road to surgery. When he got to the part where his friend Michael offered him half of his liver, that's where he had to pause and collect himself.

    "Having someone give you your life back -- it's hard to just say you're grateful," says Steven. "Gratitude doesn't do it. I don't know what the right word is."

    The two men became friends over 20 years ago when Michael worked at a company managed by Steven. A few years later, Michael left his job and moved away. They stayed in touch, talking on the telephone a couple of times a year.

    It was during one of those conversations that Michael learned that Steven had terminal liver disease brought on by hepatitis and needed a transplant. Steven was depressed because doctors had just disqualified a high school friend who had volunteered to be a donor.After a Transplant: What to Expect, How to Cope

    "Right there in the middle of that conversation, I knew without a doubt what I was going to do," Michael recalled months later. "Something just came over me. It just felt right. I know it sounds strange, but that is just the way it was."

    Without a word to Steven, Michael had his blood type tested and discovered that he matched his friend. "I called and asked if he'd like to have half of my liver," Michael says. "He said, 'You're crazy.' But I told him I wanted to do it."

    The Rise in Living Donors

    Just over a decade ago, this gift of life between two close friends would have been impossible. Partial organ transplants between adults were unheard of: People's immune systems typically rejected organs from nonrelatives, and doctors, for the most part, considered such operations not only risky but unethical. But today, Michael could be the poster boy for a trend that's changing the course of transplant medicine in the United States. There are more living donors today than deceased ones. And many of the living donors are unrelated to the patient in need; sometimes they don't even know them.

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