How can you tell if a guy's wife has cheated on him?
Well, it depends on the guy, of course, but I do recall my wife and I having
dinner with a couple she knew better than I, and thinking that the husband was
being awfully rude to the mother of his children.
"What was that about?" I asked my wife later.
"I think he's mad at his wife for cheating on him," she said.
"Wow. You mean he just found out?"
"No, this all happened five years ago."
For most guys in most matters, five years would be...
But low T can also cause many symptoms unrelated to sex. Low testosterone levels can:
Lower your energy levels
Cut your drive to get things done
Make you more irritable
You may also find it tougher to concentrate. And your risk of depression may rise.
Low testosterone can lead to changes in your body, too. For example, you may:
Grow less body hair
Have a decline in muscle mass
See an increase in your breast size
Low T can also cause osteoporosis, which gradually weakens your bones, leaving them brittle and at risk for breaks.
"Men should be aware of these symptoms and think about low testosterone," says endocrinologist Spyros Mezitis, MD, PhD, of Lenox Hill Hospital in New York City. "Physicians have to think about it as well. It remains under-diagnosed and it's not part of a routine checkup."
But these symptoms can also be related to other conditions. Make an appointment with your doctor, who can do some tests to see what's causing your symptoms.
At the Doctor's Office
When you go to the doctor with symptoms of low T, your doctor will:
Go over your medical history
Discuss medications you take (prescription and non-prescription)
Ask you about any family or relationship problems
"We want to look for other possible sources of the symptoms," says Jason Hedges, MD, PhD. Hedges is a urologist at Oregon Health and Science University in Portland. "Other things can lead to these symptoms, including your job, stress, and everyday life."
You will also have a physical exam. Your doctor will examine your body hair, testicles, penis, scrotum, and breasts.
Finally, your doctor will take a blood sample to measure your testosterone level. Your doctor may want to do the blood test first thing in the morning, when most men's testosterone levels are at their highest.
The normal range for total testosterone is between approximately 300 and 1,000 nanograms per deciliter. If you fall below that range and have symptoms of low T, the diagnosis is fairly certain.
However, symptoms can happen even if you have normal levels of total testosterone. If that's the case, your doctor will likely measure "free" and "bioavailable" testosterone. These types of testosterone make up a small portion of your total testosterone. But knowing their levels can offer helpful clues about how well your body is making testosterone. Some doctors will measure all three types of testosterone at the same time.
Hedges says making a diagnosis can require more than just following the numbers.
"You don't just treat the level, you treat the patient," he says. "If you have symptoms but are at the low end of the normal range, I would be willing to try to increase those levels to see if the symptoms improve."