We all feel like we run in circles sometimes. Jeff Gordon does it for a living. The 36-year-old NASCAR legend races and trains almost every day, clocking speeds of 180+ miles per hour, for hours at a time.
Unlike most of us, who can afford a little a daydreaming when our daily routine gets a bit dull, distractions for Gordon can be deadly. He needs his mind focused at all times on his car, on the track, and on the other racers surrounding him.
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Gordon has been racing for three decades, for half of that time in NASCAR's most competitive racing series, now called the Sprint Cup. He's racked up more championships and first place finishes than all but a few other drivers. Recently, we talked with Gordon, about what drives him to win and what keeps him focused -- both on the track and off. There are plenty of lessons here for those of us who stick to the posted speed limits.
1. Keep your cool. And embrace your fear. At speeds approaching - and sometimes exceeding - 200 mph, Gordon's heart races nearly as fast as he does. Add to that the 3 g's of force that he and other drivers strain against through the banked curves of many NASCAR tracks and you get quite a punishing - and aerobic - workout.
How does he manage it? Racers are "conditioned" by constant practice, says Gordon, until "you're relaxed, your heart rate is adjusted, as is your breathing." Fear is also a big part of what keeps him from losing control. "Fear keeps you from pushing the car too hard over the edge and into the wall."
2.Fill up with the best fuel.Over the past few years, Gordon has learned that properly fueling his body is as important as properly fueling his #24 Chevy. A trip to a nutritionist at the behest of his wife, model Ingrid Vandebosch, set him on the right track. Nowadays, he passes on red meat in favor of fish and vegetables (though he still makes room for Rocky Road ice cream).