You probably think of yourself as an average guy. And you probably think you
cope pretty well with everyday stress. Sure, the boss might be causing you
stress at work and making you uneasy about how secure your job is. Yeah, and
maybe your wife has been too busy or too tired lately to notice just how much
stress you have to deal with. And look at how fast your daughter is growing up.
It's as if you're watching her in time-lapse photography while your
college-aged son is still stuck in high...
"A few days," he answered, speculating it was probably just an
outbreak of eczema.
"That doesn't look good," I replied. "Maybe you should see your
"OK," he said. I shook my head, knowing it would be a while before
he heeded my suggestion. Last year, it took a few months to convince him to go
for a physical examination. Before that, it had been five years since he'd been
to a doctor.
To Noel's credit, he's just being a guy. According to a 2001 CDC report,
women are 33% more likely than men to visit a doctor in general, although the
gap narrows with increasing age.
One could accept the statistic as just another difference between men and
women, but the stakes are too high to remain complacent.
The Men's Health Network (MHN) reports that men die at higher rates than
women from the top 10 causes of death - heart disease, cancer, stroke, chronic
obstructive pulmonary disease, accidents, pneumonia and influenza, diabetes,
suicide, kidney disease, and chronic liver disease and cirrhosis.
Men also die younger than women. In 1920, women outlived men only by one
year. Today, CDC figures show the life expectancy gap has widened: On average,
women survive men by over five years.
"Any human being who is not connected to a physician to screen for major
health problems is at greater risk (of disease and death)," says Jean
Bonhomme, MD, MPH, a board member of the MHN.
The biggest problem that men have is not so much a specific disease, says
Bonhomme, but the diseases are the result of lack of health care monitoring
earlier in life. He cites the progression of heart disease as an example:
"If you don't get your cholesterol checked when it's going high when you're
20, and if don't get your blood pressure checked when it's going high when
you're 30, maybe your blood sugar's getting a little high when you're 40, what
do you think is going to happen when you're 50?"