Daily Words of Wisdom
So stressed you could scream? This simple strategy can take you from panic to peace in a single phrase.
How badly do I want what's on the other side of this brick wall I just hit?
—Betsy Hiebert, 46, Winnipeg, Manitoba; small-business owner
"When I've tried and tried to reach what appears to be an unattainable goal,
I ask myself what's preventing me from achieving it. What's my brick wall, and
how can I get over, under, or around it? What do I need to do that fits within
my moral and ethical framework that can help me achieve the desired
What is the absolute most important thing I should spend my precious time doing today?
—Peggy Duncan, 57, Atlanta; personal-productivity expert
I ask myself that question; then I write my answer, hold it in front of me,
and say, 'Start on that, finish it, then move on.' Yesterday, I wanted
to work on my new blog. That's fun for me. But I knew I needed to get caught up
on a task I was dreading — three months' worth of bank reconciliation. I knew
it would only take a few minutes to get it done, but still I procrastinated.
Then I asked my question, answered it, shut down the blog, and finished the
despised bookkeeping. That gave me the time for what I really love."
If everything is important, then nothing is.
—Kelly Stettner, 39, Springfield, VT; nonprofit director
"The saying keeps me on an even keel and helps me prioritize the plates that
are spinning above my head, so I know which ones I can drop and pick up again
Originally published on July 1, 2009
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