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    Frequent Arguments Might Be the Death of You

    Social stress seems to increase the risk for an early demise

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    By Steven Reinberg

    HealthDay Reporter

    THURSDAY, May 8, 2014 (HealthDay News) -- Arguing and worrying over family problems may lead to an increased risk of dying in middle age, Danish researchers report.

    Conflicts with family, friends and neighbors posed the greatest risk. Those most at risk are men and people out of work, the researchers noted.

    "Stressful social relations in private life are associated with a two- to three-times increased risk of dying," said lead researcher Dr. Rikke Lund, an associate professor in the department of public health at the University of Copenhagen.

    "Worries and demands from partners and children, and conflicts in general, seem the most important risk factors," she said.

    The findings still held when chronic disease, depressive symptoms, age, sex, marital status, support from social relations, and social and economic position were taken into account, Lund said.

    "We also find that men and participants outside the labor force are especially vulnerable to the exposure to stress from social relations," she said.

    Simon Rego, director of psychology training at Montefiore Medical Center at Albert Einstein College of Medicine in New York City, said, "While we've long known the protective role that healthy social relations play, the results of this study suggest that social relations are actually more like a double-edged sword, as they can also be destructive when unhealthy."

    The report was published online May 8 in the Journal of Epidemiology & Community Health.

    For the study, Lund and colleagues collected data on nearly 10,000 men and women, aged 36 to 52, who took part in the Danish Longitudinal Study on Work, Unemployment and Health.

    Participants were asked about their everyday social relationships, particularly about who, among partners, children, other relatives, friends and neighbors, made excess demands, prompted worries or were a source of conflict, and how often these problems arose. They also examined whether having a job made a difference.

    Using data from the Danish Cause of Death Registry, researchers tracked participants from 2000 to the end of 2011. Over that time, 196 women (4 percent) and 226 men (6 percent) died. Nearly half the deaths were from cancer. Heart disease and stroke, liver disease, accidents and suicide accounted for the rest.

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