Maryann Lowry was 42 years old in 1995, when she woke up one morning with severe pelvic pain. She was diagnosed with vulvodynia -- which literally just means severe pain in the vulvar area. Today, 14 years later, she says that she’s “95% recovered” -- but the many years of dealing with chronic pain took its toll on her relationships, her personal life, and of course, her sex life.
“I thought, how am I going to keep my marriage together if I can’t have sex? It was more of a gift that I tried to give...
Sure, you want your shoes to look great. But they also need to fit you just right. You’ll feel better in them and your feel will be happier when they do.
When you’re shoe shopping and fall for a gorgeous but crazy-making pair, walk away, no matter how much you like the style. Don’t count on them “breaking in.”
2. Take the Wet Footprint Test
This simple test will help you pick the best shoes for you.
Get your foot a little bit wet. Stand on a paper bag and then step off. Look at the image your foot left behind. If you see half of your arch, you have a normal foot or a neutral arch. If you see almost your entire foot, you have a flat foot. If you see just a thin line connecting the ball of your foot to your heel, you have high arches.
Remember your type when you choose your shoes.
3. Choose the Proper Shoe for High Arches
Shoes with laces, buckles, or straps are best for this type of foot. Look for extra cushioning and a soft platform. Shoes with good arch support and a slightly raised heel can help keep your feet in fine form.
4. For Flat Feet Get the Right Insert
See a foot doctor to set you up with custom inserts for your shoes. They can be pricey, but they may really help. "They're like eyeglasses for your feet," Reid says.
5. There’s a Shoe for That, So Wear It
Do you run or play a specific sport three or more times a week? Treat your feet to a shoe made just for that activity.
Good running shoes, for example, can help prevent heel pain, stress fractures, and other foot problems that runners sometimes get. Replace your sports shoes when they start to wear down.
6. Kick the High Heel Habit
"A 5-inch spike heel isn't going to do anybody any good," Bowman says. "It forces all the weight to the front of the foot and will cause pain." High heels also put you on the fast track to bunions, corns, and other problems.
If you love heels, try a shorter one. A two-inch heel is better than a four-inch heel. Don't wear them every day, and don’t wear them when you will be on your feet for a long time. Choose chunky heels instead of skinny ones if you have flat feet.