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    What to Do When Baby Refuses a Bottle

    By Kara Mayer Robinson
    WebMD Feature

    Not all babies take to a bottle right away. Try these tips to turn your feeding problems around.

    Create a Relaxed Atmosphere

    If you're calm and relaxed, your baby may be more receptive to the bottle.

    "Babies are sensitive creatures and pick up on stress in mom and dad," says Megan L. Shope, a certified doula supervisor.

    Create a space that's relaxing and comfortable for both baby and you. Dim the lights. Sit in a comfortable chair.

    "We enjoy a nice atmosphere when we're eating, and so do babies," Shope says.

    Try When Your Baby's a 'Little' Hungry

    "Ideally, a baby needs to be alert and just hungry enough to be interested, but not so hungry that baby will become frustrated and upset," says Melanie Potock, MA, a pediatric feeding specialist in Longmont, CO.

    Look for hunger cues. Give it a try when your baby is hungry but not starving. A frantic baby and a sense of urgency make it harder.

    Position Baby Properly

    "Proper positioning for bottle-feeding is essential to success," Potock says. The best way to hold your baby is slightly upright and snuggled into your arm. Make sure your baby's head, neck, and body are in a straight line.

    Bring your baby's hands toward his belly, and tuck his elbows into his sides. You can also give your baby a footrest, like a pillow or even the crook of your elbow. Pressing in with his feet and bending his knees will help him feel more stable.

    Help Baby Suck

    Try a technique that makes use of a baby's natural sucking reflex. Potock suggests taking these steps:

    1. Touch your baby's lips with a gentle yet firm touch of the bottle nipple.
    2. Roll the nipple into his mouth.
    3. Gently press the nipple down onto the center of his tongue.

    Your baby will instinctively curl the sides of his tongue around the nipple. "The lips should close, and baby may take one or two sucks before pulling away," she says.

    If it doesn't work right away, be patient. "This is a new skill and will take time."

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