Buying Safe Toys for the Holidays
With so many toy recalls, what's a parent to do? WebMD talked to experts who offered their advice.
Safe Toys: Reason for the Season?
What can parents do if their child is wailing for last month's "it"
toy, when that item may pose a danger?
Family psychologist John Rosemond, author of Parenting by the Book,
says that parents should simply tell kids the truth -- that the toy they want
can hurt them.
"Make it simple," he says. "Today's parents explain things
in too wordy a fashion."
Rosemond also believes that most families have far too many toys, anyway --
and most are the wrong kind.
He suggests that parents use this opportunity to get rid of dangerous toys
and superfluous ones. Ideally, kids should have no more than 10 toys at a
time -- and as many as possible should be toys that require imagination and
"I've been telling parents to get rid of 80% of their children's toys
long before this controversy started," he says. "They play much more
creatively and imaginatively, the fewer toys they have. There is also less
sibling conflict and more family, and the kids play for longer periods of time,
which means they bug the parents less."