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    Nick Cassavetes' Very Personal Link to His New Movie

    The accomplished director chose My Sister's Keeper because of his experience caring for his critically ill daughter.
    WebMD Magazine

    Nick Cassavetes knows a thing or two about parenting a sick child. His daughter Sasha was born with congenital heart disease. Now 21 and healthy, she endured multiple surgeries and hospital stays to treat her condition. So when Warner Bros. came to the director, writer, and former actor with a draft of the adaptation of Jodi Picoult’s hit novel, My Sister’s Keeper, he was immediately drawn to the story of a family who produces a daughter for one reason: to save their older daughter’s life. "It hit home for me pretty hard," says Cassavetes, who ultimately cowrote the script and directed the film, which hit theaters June 26.

    Creating a life for the specific purpose of saving another might sound a bit, well, creepy, but not to Cassavetes. “Your job as a parent is to keep your child alive at any cost, he says. "Difficult ethical situations are one thing; your child dying is something else. And that something else takes precedence."

    Cassavetes on illness, and ethics

    But what if saving one child’s life infringes on the rights of the other? "Getting pricked by needles is different than putting another one of your children in direct harm’s way," he counters. When asked if he would have created another child to cure his daughter, he answers instantly. "There’s no extent on earth I would not go to help my child."

    Cassavetes is willing to put his money where his mouth is. He recently offered to donate a kidney to a friend who’s on dialysis. But because Cassavetes had malaria as a child, he was unable to donate. Otherwise he would have gone under the knife without question. "What else are we on the planet for? If somebody needs something and you can help, you help them," he says simply.

    Ethics aside, Cassavetes, the son of actor Gena Rowlands and the late, acclaimed director/actor John Cassavetes, feels the film’s powerful story will connect with viewers. "It’s the journey a family takes when a child is sick," he says. And what does Cassavetes hope viewers will be talking about when they leave the theater? "Hopefully they’ll want to run out and hug their children."

    Reviewed on July 02, 2009

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