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    10 Secrets of Great Moms


    WebMD Feature from "Redbook" Magazine

    By Lindsey Palmer
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    REDBOOK knows that moms know. So the life-tested parenting advice here comes straight from the mouths of the experts - you!

    1. Gather Helping Hands

    “Enlist everyone you can to help you. Just because you’re a mother, that doesn’t mean you have to be Wonder Woman. When my daughter was born, I called my sister crying. Hearing how overwhelmed I was, she came in all the way from Alaska and helped me set up a schedule, which was such a lifesaver! It takes a village to raise a child, especially a newborn, and you’re a better mother for asking for the assistance that you need.”
    -Trisha Idoni, 43, mother to Mallory, 8; Pensacola, FL

    2. Help Homework Happen

    As soon as my kids get home from school, I set them up for homework time, with each child at his or her own station in the kitchen so that they don’t mix up their papers. Then I find something to do in the vicinity so that I’m nearby for help if they need it, but not hovering over them. It’s a routine we stick to, so the kids know what’s expected of them every day.”
    -Karen Schiff Freeman, 37, mother to Rebecca, 12, Jarrett, 9, and Lexi, 6; Solon, OH

    3. Put Nightmares to Bed

    “When your child has nightmares, here’s how to ward off ‘monsters’: Use a battery-operated handheld fan to chase them away, and fill a spray bottle with ‘Go-Away Monster Spray.’ Then lie in bed with your child and ask him what he’d like to dream about, suggesting pleasant things like sharing an ice cream cone or building a sand castle on the beach. This worked with my son, and now he sleeps through the night.”
    -Lisa Keddy, 43, mother to Nicholas, 6; Ocean, NJ

    4. Win the Sweets War

    “I serve my kids whatever I plan to feed them for dinner, including a small portion of dessert, all together on those plastic sectioned character plates (Dora the Explorer and SpongeBob are their favorites). Each area has chicken, rice, salad, and a Popsicle, or something similar. I don’t bug them to eat the veggies before the treat, so even if they have dessert first, it’s small enough that they don’t fill up - therefore they always move on to eat a nice amount of dinner. It works like a charm.”
    -Emily Becker, 39, mother to Jonathan, 11, and Madelyn, 4; Belmont, CA

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