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Is Your Preteen Ready to Stay Home Alone or to Watch Younger Siblings?

House Rules

If you've answered yes to most or all of these questions, your tween may be ready to stay home alone. Before you leave for the first time, establish a few basic house rules that cover different situations:

  • What to do if the doorbell rings
  • What to do if the phone rings
  • Whether it's OK to have friends over, and if so, how many friends can come over
  • What kinds of snacks they can eat
  • Time limits on watching TV or playing computer or video games, and a list of approved programs and games

Getting Your Preteen Ready for Babysitting

Some children have the maturity to start babysitting as early as age 12 or 13. Others are better off waiting until they're older teenagers.

Before you let your tween babysit, demand the same qualifications that you would from any babysitter you are considering hiring. Any prospective babysitter needs to be:

  • Responsible
  • Mature
  • Able to make good decisions
  • Able to follow the rules
  • Comfortable handling authority without abusing it
  • Able to calmly handle any emergency or other problems that arise

Preteens can learn some of these skills, along with first aid and CPR, by taking a babysitting class. Check with your local chapter of the American Red Cross or YMCA for babysitting classes in your area.

Consider having the tween be a mother’s or father’s helper. This will allow you to supervise while the tween learns how to care for the child.

Getting Your Home Ready for Your Tween

Make your house as tween-friendly as possible so you don't have to worry as much about leaving your child alone or in charge of a younger sibling when you go out.

For example, make a list of emergency phone numbers that includes:

  • Your cell phone
  • Family members who live nearby
  • Neighbors
  • Your pediatrician
  • Poison control
  • The local police and fire departments
  • Panic button on the alarm system
  • 911 (It sounds like a no-brainer, but a panicked kid can forget those three numbers.)

Other suggestions include:

  • Discuss what to do in case of an emergency, such as a fire, power outage, or severe weather.
  • Keep a first-aid kit stocked with bandages, wound disinfectant, and other supplies, and teach your tween how to use it.
  • Check to see that all smoke detectors and phones in your house are working.
  • Leave flashlights and fire extinguishers in easy-to-find places. Teach your tween when and how to use the fire extinguisher.
  • Stock the fridge with enough healthy foods and snacks to hold your tween until you get back. No-heat foods are easier to prepare. If some cooking is needed, show your child how to use the microwave, stove, and other necessary appliances.
  • Make sure you've set up parental filters on your TV and computer.
  • Hide anything you don't want to end up in your tween's hands. That includes prescription medications, alcohol, guns, tobacco, and lighters.

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