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Beyond Childhood Fears


No matter what's causing a childhood fear, experts agree it should never be ignored -- or childhood fears could turn into adult ones. But Garber says it's not always easy to find out what's bothering our children. "They don't often just tell us. They speak more through their behaviors."

Garber says those behavioral signs might include a change in sleeping pattern or an otherwise unexplainable need to be close to a parent. "What you need to do is first help them identify what they're afraid of and then teach them ways of coping with that fear," he says. "It will make them less likely to have anxiety disorders as an adult."

Cantor says that when a disturbing news story is at the root of a fear, it might help with older children to stress "reassuring information," such as telling a child that the presence of smoke alarms makes a fatal fire unlikely. But she adds there is one thing you should never say as a fear alleviator: "Don't say, it's very rare. It's not going to happen. Because for catastrophic things, one in a billion is too much."

Vital Information:

  • Childhood fears are a common experience, but a new study of children shows that nearly 50% exhibit symptoms of anxiety and 23% meet the full diagnostic criteria for anxiety disorder.
  • Some experts say that images of violence in the mass media, especially the news, contribute to fears among children.
  • Parents should try to find out whether their children have any fears and teach them to cope with them so that they don't develop anxiety disorder as adults.

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