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    Dating After Divorce: When Is the Right Time?

    Accept yourself as an individual

    Your identity has nothing to do with your dating status. Rather than jumping into a new relationship to avoid being alone, give yourself a chance to explore life on your own terms.

    “You can't heal unless you're on your own,” Tauber says. “You need to find single friends to have a social life with.”

    Things have changed since the last time you were dating

    Not only have you changed since you were last single, but so have your social life, circle of friends, and routines. You might meet a new partner through a friend or by clicking with a mysterious stranger -- but you may also want to consider online dating.

    “The advantage is you have a pool of people who are looking, like you are,” Sills says. “When you drop off the kids at school, there might be a single person there, but you don't know them.”

    Dating is an adult decision

    Some single parents don't date because they're worried about the effect it may have on their children. You don't let your children make other decisions for you, so don't let them keep you from dating if that’s something you want to do.

    But be careful.

    “Do a very slow introduction of a new partner,” Sills says. “It should be a serious person with the potential of a long-term relationship who comes to dinner or the zoo as mom or dad's friend.”

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    Reviewed on December 30, 2013

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