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    New Spin on Sex Ed -- Booty Camp!

    Booty camps get couples to refocus on sex and their loving relationship.

    Prenuptial Checkup continued...

    "Not only do I teach couples how to communicate positively and fight fairly, but how to have the very best love life they can possibly have where both partners get their needs met and learn how to communicate their sexual wants, needs, desires, fantasies, and fears," she says.

    "We take a driving test, and I think we should take marriage test," she tells WebMD.

    That said, "It's never to late to learn as long as both have the desire," she says. To that end, Cadell offers an audiotape/workbook program for couples who have problems, called Passion Power.

    Do Your Homework

    When a couple is interested in attending a program, "you have to research carefully and get as much information about it as possible," she says."There are good, bad and indifferent courses," she says. "Maybe even get referrals and view videos or read books to get as much information as you can."

    Important questions to ask:

    • What are the benefits?
    • Is there a money-back guarantee?
    • Is there nudity?
    • How many people will be in the group?
    • How much interaction is there with other couples or instructors?

    No program is right for every couple, she says. "Some couples may not want to be part of a big group and other people get motivated by a big group," she says.

    New York City-based sex therapist Ruth Westheimer, PhD, author of several books including Sex For Dummies and Conquering the Rapids of Life: Making the Most of Midlife Opportunities, has been advising Americans on bedroom matters for decades.

    But as for booty camps: "Just to have couples come to camp seems problematic if no one has had a conversation with them to know what the reality of their lives is about," says Westheimer, popularly known as Dr. Ruth.

    "When I see a couple walk into my office, if they hate each other, I say, 'See an attorney or go for mediation because psychosexual therapy won't work,'" she says. "But for a good couple, retreats or therapy may be wonderful, and maybe they will learn some new tricks."

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