Sharing Your Sex Fantasies With your Partner: Sizzler or Fizzler?
Sex experts discuss the pros and cons of revealing to your partner your most private erotic fantasies.
Bringing Your Partner Into the Loop With Sexual Fantasies
But when it's only inhibition, not guilt, that's keeping you from sharing
your fantasies from your partner, it might be mutually beneficial to let those
feelings surface, say experts.
"Don't expect your partner to figure out what turns you on. Tell your
partner. That's all part of the fantasy," McClary says. "Life's too short to
wait for your partner to figure it out."
For many couples, sharing erotic fantasies may be a matter of remembering
how things used to be when your relationship was new. "Ask yourself, 'What's
going to make us start giggling again? What used to be sexy and fun?'" McClary