What You're Really Doing in Bed
You Tell Us.... When was the last time you faked orgasm, and why did you
"I faked it last night because it was lasting forever and I just wanted
to go to sleep." -- Lisa, 42
"I have only faked once. Honestly, I felt so bad because my husband was
trying so hard to satisfy me; I just couldn't seem to reach orgasm and it was
starting to feel like work. But I admitted it to him afterward, and he told me
he'd rather know if I wasn't going to, instead of me faking." -- Becky,
"I've never faked an orgasm because I figured if I did, then we would
never figure out what works and what doesn't." -- Tonya, 28
Uh-oh! 4% of you have never had an orgasm with a partner.
Whoa! 13% of you have had five or more orgasms in a single sex session.
What Gets You Going?
Okay, okay -- we know what you're really curious about is what everyone
else is doing behind closed bedroom doors. For starters, your favorite position
is him on top (39%), followed by you on top (28%) and from behind (25%). For
most of you (55%), sex usually lasts between 10 and 30 minutes, with another
22% saying it lasts 30 minutes to an hour. What about foreplay? With less than
half an hour for sex, you've gotta be efficient: Three to 10 minutes of
foreplay is the norm, say 41% of you; another 31% get 10 to 20 minutes of
Sexy Statistics: How adventurous are you? Here's how many of you have
tried these sex-life boosters:
80% Sexy lingerie.
60% Using a sex toy/vibrator.
50% Looking at pornography.
41% Anal sex.
28% Tying each other up during sex.
21% Blindfolding each other during sex.
16% Dressing up in costumes/role-playing.
You Tell Us.... What have you tried to spice things up in bed?
"I love to dress up in costumes complete with wigs. My guy comes to the
door and is greeted by someone very sexy and different. I even disguise my
voice!" -- Louise, 46
"We have tried role-playing and we also talk dirty to each other on the
phone during the day." -- Kellie, 34
"We give each other full-body massages with light touches and rubs,
barely grazing those intimate spots but not full-on touching them. It is very
sensual and relaxing and makes you crave more." -- Jamie, 27
"Just different positions, and of course my husband loves porn -- I
don't mind it either. I also have a collection of toys that we use together. He
loves to watch me use them." -- Holly, 44
"I bought a red lightbulb for my bedside table lamp for mood lighting.
We sometimes use blindfolds -- that can really enhance the experience." --