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    7 Solutions That Can Save a Relationship

    Rocky road? Get your love life back on track.
    (continued)

    Relationship Problem: Trust

    Trust is a key part of a relationship. Do you see certain things that cause you not to trust your partner? Or do you have unresolved issues that prevent you from trusting others?

    Problem-solving strategies:

    You and your partner can develop trust in each other by following these tips, Fay says.

    • Be consistent.
    • Be on time.
    • Do what you say you will do.
    • Don't lie -- not even little white lies to your partner or to others.
    • Be fair, even in an argument.
    • Be sensitive to the other's feelings. You can still disagree, but don't discount how your partner is feeling.
    • Call when you say you will.
    • Call to say you'll be home late.
    • Carry your fair share of the workload.
    • Don't overreact when things go wrong.
    • Never say things you can't take back.
    • Don't dig up old wounds.
    • Respect your partner's boundaries.
    • Don’t be jealous.
    • Be a good listener.

    Even though there are always going to be problems in a relationship, Sherman says you both can do things to minimize marriage problems, if not avoid them altogether.

    First, be realistic. Thinking your mate will meet all your needs -- and will be able to figure them out without your asking -- is a Hollywood fantasy. "Ask for what you need directly," she says.

    Next, use humor -- learn to let things go and enjoy one another more.

    Finally, be willing to work on your relationship and to truly look at what needs to be done. Don't think that things would be better with someone else. Unless you address problems, the same lack of skills that get in the way now will still be there and still cause problems no matter what relationship you're in.

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    Reviewed on September 26, 2013
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