Women's Sex Satisfaction Linked to Submission
Connection Impairs Ability to Become Aroused, Research Shows
WebMD News Archive
July 21, 2005 -- Some women may subconsciously associate sex with submission, and the connection could wreak havoc on their ability to enjoy sex, research shows.
In a series of studies involving female college students, University of Michigan researchers found that the women who most strongly linked sex with submission reported the most difficulty becoming sexually aroused. The same association was not seen in young men.
"Women seem to internalize the female sexual role of submission," the researchers write. "In the process of fitting their sexual behavior and desires into this cultural mold, women may unwittingly undermine their sexual arousal."
Empowerment = Satisfaction
Two well-known sex therapists who spoke to WebMD expressed differing opinions on the research.
"I just don't think this study is relevant for sexually mature, experienced women," says Sandra R. Leiblum, PhD.
Leiblum directs the Center for Sexual and Relationship Health at the UMDNJ-Robert Wood Johnson Medical School in New Jersey.
"It may be relevant to younger, less-sexually experienced women who tend to respond more to gender role stereotypes. But it would be hard to find too many 50-year-old women who feel submissive."
She adds that the most common complaint she hears from older women is a disinterest in sex.
Therapist, author, and researcher Laura Berman, PhD, agrees that college-aged women often lack a sense of sexual empowerment. But she adds that she sees the problem in women of all ages and social levels.
Berman and colleagues interviewed several thousand women for her book Secrets of the Sexually Satisfied Woman, which was published earlier this year.
She says the most sexually satisfied women were comfortable with their bodies, were able to communicate their sexual needs to their partner, and had a sense that their partner was receptive to their needs.
"Elements of empowerment are key to a woman's level of sexual satisfaction," she says. "So it makes sense that sexual response is not as good for women who don't feel this autonomy."
The University of Michigan researchers used a subliminal association test to measure the degree to which women associated sex with submission. Thirty-six female undergraduates participated in the research.