By Jessie Knadler
You didn't see it coming. You didn't even feel it land — until a split second
later when you suddenly realize you've had the wind knocked out of you. What
just hit you? Someone's nasty comment, and it's cut you to the core.
Sometimes a faultfinder disguises her disapproval as a quasi-compliment:
"I would have never had the courage to talk to my boss the way you
did." Other times, a jab takes the form of a cautionary tale: "You're
going on a cruise? I still get nightmares...
"On average, for women on birth control pills, as many will lose weight as
will gain weight," says Vanessa Dalton, MD, MPH, an assistant professor of
obstetrics and gynecology at the University of Michigan Health System.
Although some women gain weight while on the pill, it’s hard to say whether
the pill is actually the culprit. "Women do tend to gain weight over time, and
they may be blaming the pill when it’s really not the reason," says Dalton.
"They may be exercising less, or they’ve changed their diet in some way. Even
if the pill does cause a few individuals to gain weight, we’re talking about a
pound or two, not 15 or 20."
One exception is the birth control shot Depo-Provera. "Depo probably does
cause people to gain a little weight. Exactly why is unclear," Dalton says. The
shot may increase fluid retention as well as appetite, she adds. So if you’re
having weight issues, think about whether Depo should be your birth control of