Bryce Dallas Howard -- star of The Help and the Seth Rogen co-produced dramedy 50/50 in September -- is basking in the A-list spotlight. The daughter of legendary producer/director Ron Howard (once known the world over as “Opie” and “Richie Cunningham”) got her start on Broadway and for years shined in quieter films such as Lady in the Water and Clint Eastwood’s reflective Hereafter.
Now she juggles motherhood, professional life, and body image much like any American woman does: “I take it day by day. And I’m always questioning if what I’m doing is right, being a working mom,” the busy actor says. “It used to be a community effort, raising children. Now much of it falls on one person, two people. It’s really challenging to do that. … I don’t think I’ve fully figured it out.”
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Below, Howard’s life lessons for balancing work and family.
Expect the unexpected.
Howard admits to having a preconceived notion of what motherhood would bring. Instead she had a rough delivery, refused all pain medications after it, had difficulty breast feeding, didn't give herself enough time to rest and recuperate, and then stayed silent when she needed help -- a recipe for a health crisis. Now, she says: "I know I'll be the first one to ask my family or friends if I need a hand."
Say no to perfectionism.
"It wound up being a tremendous learning experience," says Howard of her bout with postpartum depression. "I hope to never go through something like that again, and hopefully I never will, but I know I won't handle it the way I did." The actress admits, "I didn't have the courage to face certain elements of myself, the ones that weren't a 'perfect mother.'" Now, with her second child on the way, she understands there's no such thing.
Don't forget YOU.
For Howard, acting is a passion. And going back to work was part of her return to health. "I stopped checking in with myself," she tells WebMD, referring to her own needs and wants. "I am so fortunate to have really great child care now," she adds, so she can take on the occasional juicy role.