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they meant menopause. Well, guess again. Many women experience these symptoms
in their 40s, even 30s.
"Everybody used to think 'this can't be happening to me,
I'm still menstruating,'" says Laura Corio, MD. "Doctors were saying to
patients, 'I can't do anything for you, you're still having your
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It's a transitional time of life called perimenopause, and as
early as age 35, women can begin feeling the symptoms, says Corio, a
gynecologist and instructor at Mount Sinai Medical Center in New York. She is
author of the book, The Change Before the Change.
"I empathize with my patients," Corio tells WebMD.
"It's not fun."
Every woman's tale is different, she says. "Some will sail
right through it without anything, others might have every symptom in the book
-- irregular periods, hot flashes, vaginal dryness, mood swings, fatigue, heart
palpitations, decreased libido."
Despite the numbers of women hitting their perimenopausal
years, a lot of doctors still have their heads in the sand when it comes to
recognizing and treating symptoms, says Corio. "It's a fallacy that nothing
can be done."
Used to be, doctors said the same thing about cramps, adds
Elizabeth McGee, MD, assistant professor of obstetrics, gynecology, and
reproductive sciences at Magee-Womens Hospital in Pittsburgh.
"It wasn't that long ago that doctors told women they
didn't have cramps, that it was all in their heads," McGee tells WebMD.
"Now we know cramps do exist, that the pain is real, and we have
very effective treatments for it. It's the same thing with
There's another reason why women need to know about all this,
says Corio. Your chances of becoming pregnant dwindle after age 24. "I see
it so often, 35-year-olds and 37-year-olds, and the egg quality is just not
there," she tells WebMD. "They're in perimenopause and they don't even
It's All About Estrogen
Recognizing perimenopause isn't easy for doctors: "Patients
will complain of hot flashes, but hormone levels will be normal, so the patient
isn't really taken seriously," says Bill Meyer, MD, associate professor of
obstetrics and gynecology and a reproductive endocrinologist at the University
of North Carolina Hospital in Chapel Hill.