"I Hate Asking for Help"
Excuse #5 “I Was Raised to Be Self-Sufficient” continued...
And what of Kathleen Hornstein? Today, she usually doesn’t hesitate to
request the assistance she needs either, whether it’s sending her husband
grocery shopping, tapping her daughter to fold laundry, or asking a neighbor to
babysit her 4-year-old twins. The result: She’s more relaxed and less frazzled.
Better yet, Hornstein says, is seeing the positive impact her requests have
had. “My kids are learning responsibility and getting a feeling of
accomplishment when they do small chores. And from carpooling, I’ve gotten to
know other moms and deepened some existing friendships. I had to learn to ask
for help, but now, I can’t imagine living my life any other way.”
Originally published on February 1, 2008
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