Medically Reviewed by Zilpah Sheikh, MD on October 04, 2023
Prep Their Bed

Prep Their Bed

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Movement can make migraines throb. Make sure your friend has a comfy place to lie still and rest their aching head.

Turn Out the Lights

Turn Out the Lights

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A common symptom of migraines is sensitivity to light, or photophobia. Dim the lights, shut the blinds, and help bring on the darkness so your friend gets some relief.

Ease Their Queasiness

Ease Their Queasiness

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Someone with migraines can feel nauseated when the pain comes. They may even vomit. Get rid of any smells that might make your friend sicker. Have anti-nausea meds on hand, too. Just make sure your friend's doctor has approved them.

Help With the To-Do List

Help With the To-Do List

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Nothing halts a day quite like a migraine. Walk the dog, pick up the kids from school, or run other errands. That'll help keep your friend's life humming while they recover.

Track Their Meds

Track Their Meds

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If this isn’t your friend's first migraine, they probably have either over-the-counter or prescription medications close by. Make sure they take the meds they need to help kick the pain to the curb. Call the doctor first if you’re not sure how much to give them.

Keep a Cool Head

Keep a Cool Head

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A cold compress on the forehead can soothe migraine pain. Have ice packs or cool washcloths on hand. Make sure to replace them as they get uncomfortable.

Keep Quiet

Keep Quiet

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All your senses can feel under attack when a migraine hits. In addition to lowering the lights, keep the sound down around someone in the midst of pain. You can:

  • Take kids and pets to another area.
  • Shut the door to their room.
  • Turn off TVs and music.

Earplugs or headphones can give you even more relief from noise. Have some close by as an extra option.

Offer Aromatherapy

Offer Aromatherapy

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Some smells can trigger migraine pain, but some scents can help it. Lavender, peppermint, and tangerine are three that can ease head pain. You can use scented lotions on their skin, or try essential oils diluted in a diffuser or on a washcloth.

Push Fluids

Push Fluids

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Dehydration can trigger migraines. If nausea isn’t a problem, bring on the water. Keep your friend hydrated, and you can help keep their pain from ramping up and getting worse.

Apply a Little Pressure

Apply a Little Pressure

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Some people find that a gentle push on their temples can ease the pain of a migraine. You can also massage their scalp. Be ready to stop if it gets to be too much or if it isn’t helping.

Check In

Check In

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Don’t be a pest, but peek in from time to time, in case your friend needs something. Shouting out or looking at a phone screen to text somebody can be hard when your head is throbbing.

Take the Wheel

Take the Wheel

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The world can’t always stop for people with a migraine. Driving while in pain isn’t safe. Being someone’s ride when their pain hits can be a big help.

Be Understanding

Be Understanding

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Migraines hurt. Take their pain seriously, and let them know you’re there to help. Emotional support can make a world of difference for the person in pain.

Call the Doctor

Call the Doctor

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It's time to reach out to a doctor if your friend has:

  • Different pain than usual
  • Numbness
  • Trouble speaking
  • Fever
  • Shortness of breath
  • Loss of vision or consciousness
  • Uncontrollable vomiting
  • A stiff neck
  • A headache that lasts over 72 hours with a duration of four hours or less pain-free

Keep a list of their symptoms, and let the doctor know what medications they have taken, in case the pain makes it hard for them to talk for themselves.