Most Children Learn Violent Behavior at Home
A recent study -- dealing not with violence but addiction -- came to similar
conclusions especially relating to fathers. According to a study from the
National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University
released in August, teen-agers who do not get along well with their fathers are
more likely to smoke, drink, and use drugs than youngsters who got along well
with their dads. Even teen-agers from one-parent families are less at risk from
tobacco, alcohol, and drugs than those in two-parent families who have poor
relationships with their fathers.
Orpinas says whether dealing with aggressive behavior or addiction, the
message is clear. "Children need to be talked to and monitored starting at
a very young age," says Orpinas. "And parents have to be careful what
they teach their children, because children learn from them the most."
- Despite blame that is often placed on the media and peer pressure, the
biggest determinant of a child's aggressive behavior is the influence of their
- Low parental monitoring, poor relationships with parents, and perceived
parental support for fighting were the most predictive factors of aggression in
adolescents, according to a recent study.
- Similar findings have shown that addictive behavior is greatly influenced
by parental relationships, especially those with the father.