What We've Learned From 'Sex and the City'
From sex toys to infertility, HBO comedy raises awareness of sexual health.
There's Something About Miranda
Miranda Hobbes (played by actress Cynthia Nixon) "is a
smart, professional woman and the one of the four women who has the most
educated professional background, but she seemed to find it mutually exclusive
to a partner," Saltz says. "Women are afraid that if they have a
driving profession, they can't have a man too," she says. "It is
something that women worry about and it's good to bring up the conflict, but
Miranda really lived it out."
However, eventually Miranda did wed her baby's father and
true-love bartender Steve Brady (played by actor David Eigenberg) and the
family migrated to Brooklyn.
Her Baby's Father?
Miranda became pregnant after having sex with her ex following
his diagnosis with testicular cancer. At the time, the two had no plans to get
All's well that ends well, but "talking about the fear of
being a parent alone is great," Saltz says.
"It's wonderful how they go into things like how women with
vulvodynia are highly upset and disrupted in their emotional and sexual lives
and also tell you how little the medical establishment knows of the
problem," says Schwartz. She is referring to Charlotte's diagnosis of
vulvodynia after reporting symptoms of vaginal burning, itching, and stinging
to her gynecologist. Vulvodynia is a sharp, knifelike, or burning pain around
the opening of the vagina that is often unexplained.
"It's very useful to get vulvodynia out of the proverbial
closet," she says.
The National Vulvodynia Association, however, thought that this
portrayal did women a disservice. On the show, the doctor told Charlotte that
the condition is mostly just uncomfortable.
But for many women with vulvodynia, this can't be farther from
the truth, according to the organization, which is based in Silver Spring,
"Sex and the City failed miserably at portraying the
serious and complicated nature of this condition, particularly when the show's
gynecologist indicated that it's easy to treat," says Phyllis Mate,
executive director of the National Vulvodynia Association, in a news
But it did get people talking about vulvodynia, experts agree.
In fact, it got us talking about a lot. Fetishes, swinging, homosexuality, and
anal sex -- you name it, and the show covered it in some fashion over the past
six seasons, and for sure they spiced up water cooler conversation on Monday
"Sex and the City is a terrific lightning rod that
way," says Schwartz.