"I'm more sensitive now to women when they say they've 'gotta go,'" says
51-year-old professional speaker, author, and prostate cancer survivor Chuck
Gallagher. The Greenville, S.C., resident experienced mild incontinence for six weeks
following his laparoscopic surgery. "Guys don't want to talk about it; it's
embarrassing. They think they have to suck it up and deal with it."
And men aren't the only ones who don't want to talk about their little leaks
or mild incontinence.
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Many workers sip coffee or water all day, but the fuller your bladder is, the more likely you are to leak or have an accident. Drink no more than 3 or 4 glasses of liquids at work, and limit caffeine. It's a diuretic, which makes your body produce more urine.
“You can go a little thirsty during work and drink more at home,” Comiter says.
Plan Bathroom Visits
Empty your bladder to avoid problems.
“Void frequently throughout the day – every time you pass a bathroom, if that's not inconvenient,” says Alan J. Wein, MD, chief of urology at the University of Pennsylvania Perelman School of Medicine.
If possible, gradually add 15 minutes to the amount of time between bathroom visits. This will train you to hold urine for long meetings. But act on any feelings of urgency.
“People should be able to train their bladders so they can wait a minimum of 3 hours,” says May M. Wakamatsu, MD, director of pelvic reconstructive surgery and urogynecology at Massachusetts General Hospital.
Flex and release your pelvic floor muscles to help prevent leaks. This exercise is called a Kegel.
“There's no limit to how frequently you can do them,” Wein says. “You can do them in a car, a bus, at your desk.”
Some people leak when they stand up. To prevent this, squeeze pelvic floor muscles as you stand. This exercise can also help you reduce a strong urge to urinate. Quickly tense and relax the muscles several times.
“That urge should go away,” Comiter says. “Then you can politely excuse yourself and go to the bathroom.”
Wear Dark Clothes
If you're concerned your co-workers might see wet spots on your clothing, wear dark colors that won't show the contrast between wet and dry fabric. This tactic should be a safety net, not a solution to your problem.
“Black or very dark brown work best,” Wakamatsu says. “Some women wear nothing but dark bottoms just in case, but we do encourage women to come in and see if we can help them with their bladder control.”