Autism and Family Relationships
Having a child with autism affects the entire family. Here's how to anticipate 5 common family issues, cope with them, and thrive.
Autism and the Family: Issue 5 -- Maintaining a Social Life continued...
You learn, she says, to take control -- even if you don't feel so in
control. "Last summer, Nat was jumping up and down on the beach," she says.
"People were staring. I turned around and said [to them,] 'Everything is under
control.' People backed off." Just saying that everything was under control
made her feel better, Senator says now.
Letting go of that image of what the "ideal" family is can help, says
Senator, who often speaks on the topic of living with autism to autism
organizations and others. "Families can be as eccentric as they need to be,"
she says. "Some aspects of autism appear to be bizarre."
So, she says: "Let yourself go with that and not worry about being a
Hallmark card. Nat has taught me to be less uptight about those kinds of
things. You can find enjoyment in odd places with these kids."